This timing is not right, that is to say, at this time you talk to him, or talk to anyone, talk about something that makes people listen to it, it is very painful, and if you get angry, you better not talk about it at this time, but after this period of time, you can still talk about it, after you talk about it, because it has passed, but it is still useful to talk about it, at least he will not do it again next time, or he will avoid it next time, there is such a situation, so the timing is very important.How should we learn Buddhism in our lives?